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August 18, 2016 · Leave a Comment

God Works Good

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God works for the good, causes things to work together

God works good. We know this about Him. But, so often I miss His “good” when it doesn’t look good to me. Last time, I was telling you that sometimes I’m afraid of God’s plans for me…I’m afraid that what He counts as good won’t feel good to me. Sometimes we’d rather feel good than be made good.

God has an eternal perspective. I’m a little too much in the moment. Are you like me? Sometimes I repeat the same cycle for days—I flare up at my husband’s harsh tone and we tumble into an angry pit—then I get discouraged. But the Lord isn’t discouraged by sin, because that’s where He seizes opportunity. Often, the pain in a relationship is strongest when the Lord is pressing hard. He presses us to learn to lean on Him. He presses close to teach us to live with Integrity—to do right, no matter who’s in the wrong. In the end, I want to get off the crazy cycle. I want to grow, so how can I despise the pain that moves me in the right direction?

When I see my children feeling awkward—trying to fit in, going to Sunday school or youth group for the first time—I worry. Yet, God has everything we need in abundance, even fellowship. Whether we lack community, or have it in abundance, God is working the circumstances for our good. Solitude makes us desperate for closer relationship with Him. Sweet Christian fellowship brings us close to Him through His people. We should trust that His goodness is at work in both situations.

My husband has some health struggles and deals with chronic pain all the time. New problems seem to pop up for him regularly. I don’t always know how to respond to his physical pain or the discouragement that sometimes follows. But he would be the first one to tell you that this pain, that has brought him to his knees, has also brought him to the Lord in a real way…so how could we not be thankful for that?

When it feels like life is going downhill fast,
can’t we just be still?
And know?

There is, in me, a seed of discontentment. I’ve learned to expect failure, expect grief, expect bad news. With every silver lining, I’ve spotted the cloud. We’ve had some difficulties. And over the years, the hard times tended to make me bitter, rather than better. I’ve memorized disappointment and forgotten hope. I’ve held onto fear and let go of joy. But these were just choices. In any given situation, in that split second, we choose what we believe is true.

When the Lord says He is for me,
and not against me,

I choose to believe Him.

Now, instead of keeping watch for difficulties, I am on the hunt for good. I am actively looking for the good God is weaving into my life.  I know Him…I know He is there, making me new, working for my good! So the new habit I’m cultivating is #CuratingtheGood — collecting #StonesofRemembrance and #GatheringHope, pointing to the evidence of God’s Hand at work for good.

So every week here, and sometimes on social media, I will spend time #CuratingtheGood and I would love for you to join me! Running late cooking dinner? Instead of grumbling, be thankful that you have food and loved ones to cook for…not everyone does. Dreading your workout? Count it a blessing that your body can move when you tell it to…because many other people would love to slip into in your running shoes! Even cuddling a sick child is a privilege…some mommas’ arms ache for such an opportunity.

If you’re like me, you’ll need to practice seeing the good in every situation. We need to practice gratitude until it becomes our first thought. Because y’all. Above all, we must be a grateful people.

let's move toward gratitude and joy by Cultivating the Good

Who’s with me? Can you join me in #CuratingtheGood in those situations you usually despise? I’m  @brittalafont on instagram and also on Facebook at Britta Lafont, Writer.

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In my typical social media introvert fashion, I re In my typical social media introvert fashion, I realize I didn’t share Gracie’s post on my feed at the time. 🤦🏻‍♀️
We are so thankful for this young man. ❤️ We are so thankful for this young man. ❤️
When the first day of school is also the day your When the first day of school is also the day your firstborn drives herself to college, it’s a lot. We moved her stuff into her dorm last week. Today she got up early to say goodbye to Dad (too early! Not pictured 😂), her brother, her doggo, her piano, and her momma. Before she left, she made blueberry scones to share with her little bro @sjoshlafont —they homeschool and relocated together, went to @westminsteroakmtn together, and have shared a love of music, Legos, superheroes (and villains), Transformers, and so much more. She played my favorite song. She even made banana bread to bring to her new roomie. @graciethenerd You are my little nut brown hare, and I love you to the moon and back. Auburn University is a better place because you are there! ❤️
Josh just started working in the bakery at Publix. Josh just started working in the bakery at Publix. Today he got his braces off. I just can’t believe it—where did the time go? @sjoshlafont
I’m a social media introvert mostly, but I’m r I’m a social media introvert mostly, but I’m reflecting today and feeling grateful for my sweet girl, my baby, my first-born. 🥰 She sure is a blessing to our family and her friends. Also, so grateful for the wonderful school where she spent the last four years—the perfect place to land after years of homeschooling on the move. “For the LORD is good; his steadfast love endures forever, and his faithfulness to all generations.” (Ps 100:5) #curatingthegood #graduated🎓 #wisebeyondheryears @graciethenerd @lafonte04 @westminsteroakmtn
Best Thanksgiving that I can remember. I am so gra Best Thanksgiving that I can remember. I am so grateful for my people!! 🤗 ❤️@graciethenerd @thecardboardqueen @lafonte04 
#Psalm8 #highlandlakes #birminghamalabama
My friend @amy_young1234 is so generous! She has f My friend @amy_young1234 is so generous! She has found a way to share her birthday with friends all year long. This past week, I had to privilege to be her #FOTW You can read about her plan to celebrate her birthday by celebrating others in the link to her blog at the end of this post. That’s SO like Amy. 🤗 https://www.messymiddle.com/52-cards-52-weeks-52-years/ #curatingthegood
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